MY ADHD-INATTENTIVE
TYPE STORY
Hi all in this post I will be talking about my ADHD and how
I lived through it. Actually, it will be more about an evil spirit attached to
me and taking full advantage of my neurological disorder and harassing me
throughout my life. This was coupled with a toxic family so there was no scope
of escape.
HOW IT WAS IN MY
SCHOOL DAYS?
ADHD has many variations, mine is the inattentive type. I
was the one in class with a wandering mind. Teachers called me the absent
minded, but I was very adoring to my science teacher because I was always
attentive in her class and I was always the first one to answer any question
raised. Without any preparation I could get full scores in science till my 7th
grade. Then physics appeared in our science textbooks and my performance
started dropping. Only in the subjects of botany and zoology I scored full
marks. It appeared that I was not fit for other subjects. Mathematics was a
nightmare for me. So I was declared a dum, a waste and worthless person by both
my teachers and my father.
Now, how did I realize there is demon watching over me? Go
on reading and you will know.
Whenever I tried putting effort in my studies there was a
strong feeling in my body, I felt feverish but there was no fever, I felt like
thoughts are being poured into my mind forcefully, my mind went absent minded
for hours. No matter how determined I was, I just couldn’t read a line from my
textbook. I remember struggling for hours to just be able to focus on one line
and ending up crying all night not knowing why and what was happening to me. This
happened even with my favorite subjects.
I was good in extracurricular activities. Whenever I bagged
a medal and an appreciation for my performance it was followed with a
disastrous attack on me. I performed in a debate competition and I stood first,
the next week the same teacher who couldn’t stop herself from appreciating me
ended up shouting at me in front of whole school. Here is what happened, I was
asked to give a speech to present in morning assembly time and it was the day
my school was being inspected by some auditors. I kept asking the teacher what
I am I supposed to talk about and he was not answering me, I kept asking and he
gave me confusing answers. One day as the day of inspection of school was
coming close I asked him sir please tell me what should I speak about on stage,
you haven’t given a topic and he said, “Did I ask you to prepare for a speech,
did I, because I don’t remember?” I was like OK he doesn’t even remember giving
me a task, so I backed off. The day finally came and all of a sudden my name
was called out on stage and said she is going to give us a speech on this ‘X’
topic. I was shocked and I denied.
The teacher came to class and gave the best memory of my
life. He threw whatever he had on his desk on my face and hurled abusive words
at me. I went out of the class and cried. There was no body to talk to. My
father was called to school and in the principal’s office the teacher started
shouting at me in front of all other teachers. Everybody was just staring at
me. I went and sat in my class, nobody talked to me, the staring continued. I
went home my father started beating me with his belt and called me forgetful
and absent minded. He said he shouldn’t have had me, he should have stopped
having kids after my sister, and they called me a curse. This not the only incident
that I want to talk about. Please go on reading. Please read it till the end especially
if you are a parent because there might be another me and you might be want to
be a different parent. Don’t just say you love your child, believe them and
take a stand for them.
I was playing a badminton match during sports week in school
and I was about to beat my senior girl with just one point, the crowd started
cheering for me and I lost it, I lost all of the points to her. She won the
match. When I was walking home I was thinking, “What happened, why it always
happens to me”.
Later I joined a table tennis coaching program and I was the
top player. It happened again. I was the one who always wins. It was a final
match that day, I was playing, the other girl was nervous because she knew I
was going to beat her. It was something I did every day. I was the best of them
all. I was not nervous, I was not nervous last time during badminton match
either, I was not nervous here. I lost the game to her. I don’t know how.
A teacher was very fond of me and she appreciated me in a
meeting with my parents saying that she is a much disciplined girl, very polite,
always tidy, she has got the best handwriting in class and right after that
every other teacher started telling her how they don’t like me and she turned against
me. Someone else’s mistake was rubbed on me and it happened when I was on a
leave due to sickness. When I came back she was being rude and I got confused. Then
the situation got cleared and I came to know that I friend wrongly blamed me
for a very big mistake that she has done. While I was on a leave all of this
happened and entire school staff believed that it was me. After I came back I cleared
it with the teacher and proved that it was not me, but it left a remark on me
with all the other teachers in school.
Evil spirits can control minds and actions of people and it
is a very easy task for them. The problem is that we don’t believe such things
happen. We don’t trust our children.
Many times in life I had this bad experience with exams
where I went well prepared and confident but I couldn’t write. Despite my best
efforts to explain nobody believed me. I couldn’t move my pen. My pen just
seemed glued to paper, my hand refusing to cooperate. I just couldn’t write. My
hand started to pain and I struggled to write. This perplexed situation
repeated itself countless times.
I used to fall sick so many times, it was headaches, specific body parts used to pain horribly, extreme weakness. I requested my parents to take me to the hospital and the results showed nothing. It turned me into a curse to my parents.
How I came to know there was a spirit attached to me?
Well now I know. The spirit attached to me rejoices when I
cry. After I turned 30, I was crying in my home sitting in a corner and the
spirit talked to me. It was a cruel but happy voice and it said, “It’s been so
long I haven’t seen you crying like this, I love it when you cry”.
I froze. I recalled and I realized that it has been more
than a month I haven’t cried like this. I always cry like this. I sit in that
corner of my house and I think of how big failure I am in life and that there
is no more hope, everything that everybody spoke about me, “that she is a
waste, fit for nothing, only capable of getting married and raising children”,
came true.
I told me pastor about this and he said it is an evil
spirit. I started searching for answers and I found out that there are things
like soul ties and soul tags and spiritual spouse. Finally, I did confess my
sins, secret affairs, and got myself freed from this spirit. Vlad Savchuk was
the pastor whose videos helped me through getting self-deliverance.
He spoke about spiritual spouse which seemed related to me
in every direction. There was a spirit attached to me since my childhood and it
made sure that I am not liked by anyone, it made sure that I always fail in
everything. It was there to fail me every time I was making some sort of
progress. It made sure I live in misery all the time. It made sure I had no
friends. It was a satanic cloud around me. Unaware of what was happening and why
it always happens to me, I lived in self-doubt. I lived a curse. My entire
childhood was a curse. My youth was a curse. I had countless nights where I spent
all night crying and with bulged out eyes I used to attend school and college. Everybody
around me knew that I was cursed, it is just that they never said it out.
How far have I
reached with treating my ADHD?
Well first I had taken up a treatment for depression,
because the depression was overwhelming and I was becoming suicidal. I have a
child now who happened to be the reason for me to think I should be alive and
seek for a medical help for this depression.
Later I talked to my psychiatrist about my inattentiveness
and got medication for it.
One important thing I want all of you to know that I was
attacked while I was getting treated for my depression. Once I put myself on
anti-depressants the spirit lost its access to my mind. I was attacked by evil
powers and the attacks were happening through my husband who usually is very
supportive unlike my parents.
Right after I started taking medication for depression, on
the day one I felt like the storm in mind has silenced. There was no negative
thought. No headache. No crying spells. It was peace. Though there was a little
drowsiness but that disappeared with continuity of medication. Then I understood
both physical and spiritual well-being are essential for life. Getting divine
help, cleansing yourself of all sins and getting freed from every curse is as important
as getting medication.
Many pastors preach and encourage believers to not to
consume any medication but to depend on God alone. This is absolutely wrong. For
some pastors reading newspaper is also a sin. Taking medicines is a sin according
to them and they say that it is like insulting God or not having faith in God. That’s
all rubbish if you ask me. According to my experience both work hand in hand.
How did I know it was
an evil attack? Because by now I am aware of the pattern of evil attacks.
It creates a situation first. Then turns people’s minds
against me, it makes the other person think negative about me, like how clumsy
she is? What a waste she is?
What comes out of mouth is what is filled inside the mind. It
made my husband talk negative about me in a restaurant and I was defending
myself, all of a sudden he started shouting at me in front of all, which I couldn’t
bear. Bringing shame on to you is one strong weapon of devil. I came home and locked
myself in my room. I was not thinking of suicide, I was just crying and then a
spirit came and circled around me, it was reminding me of some past incidents
where my husband was mocking me of my forgetfulness and some incidents where my
husband out of frustration shouted at me. And the spirit said, “he doesn’t like
you, you should kill yourself”. It was forcing me to get up and to hang myself.
This might seem like a medical condition to most of the
people but someone who has experienced it will only know the truth. The spirit
was moving around me like a snake moves around its target. I could feel the
wavy movement of it around my body.
My husband is a good man. It is annoying for anybody to tolerate
an ADHD Inattentive partner. That is what was happening with him. Though my
husband got irritated sometimes, mocked me and shouted at me, every time he did
that he also apologized sincerely. He never says I love you, never takes me on
surprise dates, he never gave me any fancy gift till today, but I am so
thankful to have a husband like him because he cares for me like I am his
child. He makes sure he is there with me whenever I am sick. He makes a call
from office just to make sure whether I had my meals on time. He expresses love
through his deeds. Even after his late working hours he comes home and finds
out that I am tired taking care of the child, he feeds me first and then he
finishes all house hold chores.
The spirit of python
I kept telling my pastor and my psychiatrist that I am
feeling like my tongue is protruding out of my mouth and touching my mouth but
no one believed. This spirit kept attacking me for more than 20 years now. I still
feel its presence around me sometimes. My pastor said it was nothing but my
imagination. He made fun of me in front of everyone so others don’t think low
of him. Mocked me every time I approached him in this regard. At one point he
asked me not to come to him for help and said he cannot do anything. My psychiatrist
said that this is the result of chemical imbalance in my mind happening due to
extreme depression and that I have to continue my medication for at least 3
years and if I quit it will worsen.
After I turned 33, Pastor Vlad Savchuk’s videos on self-deliverance
helped me. I entered into a phase of give and take relationship with God in
which he gets me to pray for my father’s soul and I get protection against this
horrible spirit in return. This is what is working for me and I am living in
peace.
Vitamin d levels
Whenever I feel like depression is seeping in again, all that
mind-flooding negative thoughts and heaviness on head ending up with headaches
and irritation is coming back, I check my vitamin d levels and get medication
for it. I am a stay at home mom and I usually never step out in sun. Over all these
years of my struggles with depression and ADHD I now understand my body
statistics. I keep a check on my iron, calcium and vitamin d levels. This is
helping me stay out of depression and is keeping me fit both physically and
mentally.
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